What a weekend! This weekend was the most fun I've had in a long time, and one of the most amazing weddings I've been to. Greg and Rachel were married last night in Dallas, TX. Greg is a co-GT grad, and has been dating Rachel as long as I've known him. Rachel and I hit it off when we first met, and I am glad Greg married such a great girl. (
Pictures are posted here)
The weekend was great. From the tiniest details, Greg and Rachel had planned the whole 3 days start to finish. Now, I am not sure what happened (if anything) Friday, but DZ and I caught the first flight out of Atlanta on Saturday morning because we wanted to get to Dallas in time to go to the
Shul and be at the
Auf Ruf.
Our plane arrived early, we had no problems getting a car, and we got to
shul probably earlier than I normally would when I'm in my own town. I'd forgotten that they attend a
Chabad shul, so I wouldn't be able to sit with the guys, and that is when it
occurred to me that I was often the only girl in this group, and sat by myself on the women's side for the first half of the time I was there at services. About halfway through though, Rachel being the perceptive host that she is, noticed I was sitting alone and brought me to sit with some friends of hers, so that was nice. After services ended, there was a lovely
Kiddush lunch, and I got to say hi to most of the guys who'd come in for the weekend. I always love seeing these guys that I went to college with - they're a fun group. During the
kiddush, Greg came around with a bottle of vodka and we did a "
l'chaim" with him. Not five minutes later, the rabbi came around and asked if we'd do one with him too. So two shots down, and it was still 1:00 in the afternoon. We knew it would be a long weekend of drinking.
In the afternoon,
GT was facing
Notre Dame in the football season opener. ND is always a recognized team, and this is the second year in a row we've opened with them. Last year we had a last minute devastating loss, but we were ready this year. We all went to a sports bar across from the hotel to watch. GT pulled through to embarrass the "fighting" Irish, who didn't put up much of a fight - losing 33-3 to GT. We were thrilled.
We went back after the game to get ready for the rehearsal dinner at the hotel. The hotel was the
Adolphus Hotel in Dallas. It's a non-chain hotel, and was beautiful inside. It was
built in 1892 and has been taken care of meticulously. The rooms are large, the fixtures - quaint but beautiful. As a matter of fact, I heard they used the hotel in the movie
Borat for one of the Hotel scenes! All of the hotel that I got to see was gorgeous. Check out the
pictures for some of the lobby and the ceiling of the French room.
The rehearsal dinner was for all out-of-
towners and members of the wedding party. There were probably 120 people just for that. That's when I realized it'd be a pretty big wedding. We enjoyed the
Mexican food, unlimited beer and margaritas, and a lovely movie put together by some of Rachel and Greg's friends. After dinner, we went to a bar near the hotel with a refreshing rooftop terrace. Unfortunately, it was pretty hot outside, so it was pretty much just hot, but still more time to hang out and spend time with everyone.
In the morning, Becca and I had plans to work out in the hotel gym. we followed through with them, as did a few others. After a good workout, we went to lunch with a bunch of people, and afterwards the boys went for a walk, and Becca and I stayed and chatted for a little while in a nearby courtyard. After a few hours, it was time to get ready for the wedding.
The wedding was lovely. Before the ceremony, Greg's
Tish was in one room while Rachel was in the other. Greg and the rest of the men paraded in for the
Bedeken for him to ensure that he was indeed marrying Rachel, and veiled her. This is a long time tradition stemming from the matriarch Rachel when Jacob was
deceived into marrying her sister Leah. We then moved into the room where the ceremony would take place, and the decorations were amazing. You could tell Rachel (and probably Greg) spent hours perfecting the final details and making decisions on the smallest of things. After the ceremony, there was a "cocktail hour" with a buffet of everything from Thai to Sushi to Middle eastern food. We weren't sure if we should eat then since the food was so good, or wait for the sit down dinner that was expected an hour later. So we did both. When we entered the reception area, the decorations immediately stood out. The band they'd hired was exceptional. I've never heard a band at a wedding that was this good. There was also a guy that I assume was hired separately who played a lot of the Jewish music at the beginning. After all the
Horah dances, dinner was served, and dancing commenced. Hours of enthusiastic dancing later, we
benched and the wedding was over. A few of us stayed around for a few more hours in the lobby chatting and joking until we just couldn't keep our eyes open any longer.
This morning was a brunch for the out of
towners, which was more welcome food for our mostly hungover crowd. After lunch, we packed up and walked to the area where Kennedy was shot and took a picture, and then hung out and talked more for another hour. At that point, we all had flights to catch, and called it a day and headed for the airport. I have just arrived home and can't believe how well planned out and executed this whole weekend was. Thank you Rachel and Greg for being such a beautiful couple inside and out, and allowing all of us to share in your obvious happiness!!!